For hundreds of years we have been sold this idea that we are supposed to be exactly like our neighbors. Look the same, dress the same, have the same lifestyle – schooling, jobs, marriage, babies. We’ve been told that if we decide to not be in this box that was designed by another that we are crazy.. We have lost our minds, we are going “rouge!” Lol I say that specifically because that is what my “family” has said about me, and it makes me laugh.
If you do not succumb to others belief system, if you decide to live life on your terms, people will label you wreckless. And the truth is, they envy you. The fact that you are doing what you want, when they have believed for so long that they couldn’t. They were conditioned to think that they had to sacrifice themselves and push their dreams aside to simply live on Earth. And now they hate seeing you do what they didn’t do. They play victim when you simply choose yourself.
How dare you listen to your soul? How dare you have the courage, the audacity to break free from a system that wasn’t designed for you to thrive?
Many do not see it that way. There own mindset creates limitations for them, and they will do everything to try to get you to believe the fears they cling to.
Don’t do it.
You were created for more.
You are the only person on this earth with the unique set of DNA, a trillion cells unlike anyone else’s…. A face and a body unmatched, unless you were born alongside siblings of course. From the moment you were born your experience was it’s own, the lighting in the room, your mothers face, the people around you. Nothing was the exact same as anothers. And up until this point you’ve lived a far different life than anyone. There may be similarities that are relatable but to it’s depths its different because you are who you are, you have the family and friends you have, the memories… the great times and the painful times. It’s miraculous when you think about it with a deeper perspective.
As a child you were confident, you had boundaries and knew what did and didn’t feel good and you nonverbally stated it.. then maybe eventually verbally stated it. Some of us were silenced young because our emotions were “too much” for our parents to handle… simply because they were never taught emotional regulation. And most of us entered the public schooling system and became part of the mass indoctrination designed to keep us small and complacent. A system our parents were also a part of. Their belief system shaped by their parents and so on. Many of them unconsciously kept us small because that’s all they knew. Their past traumas of emotional/ physical neglect, abuse all trickled down to us. So we in turn became insecure, codependent on validation from others to “prove” we are lovable and that how we feel matters. When our birthright is love, we are love in essence and how we feel has always mattered.
The systems designed wanted us to go against our nature. To focus on things externally, be defined by how well we do (through grading system & through others projections) and find false security within jobs and spouses who are also deeply programmed, traumatized, and numb. The codependent relationships never lasted when you look back on them.
Most of us are unaware of the games we have played in because no one has held us accountable. There is a whole web on lies and distraction on social media and on television created to keep you blinded from looking within and recognizing your greatness.
It isn’t until you truly sit with the uncomfortability of your own presence where you can begin to unravel all that has been there waiting to be seen. The pain, the emotions, the parts of you you’ve been taught to run from. In this space you meet yourself again.
You discover the child that always deserved love and the person you’ve become that deserves your love more than ever. You learn what feels good to you, and how to tend to yourself when it feels like your world is ending… which really is also a beautiful beginning we just haven’t seen it quite yet.
The unknown can be absolutely terrifying but the more you face yourself and the world, you become more confident in facing what is unseen. You develop trust for yourself that you can extent into the Divine, The Universe, Your ancestors… whatever you believe in personally. It makes all the difference. You’re world feels lighter and you realize your emotions are nothing to be feared and nothing we should attach to, but rather, let pass through. Emotions are energy and we have held on long enough. Tears have never been weakness, they are a sign of self love. Honoring how you feel is always righteous when it is not harmful.
Life is nothing to be feared, it is something to be embraced and you are apart of this grand life. You deserve to feel your own embrace and that of the world. 🌺💗🌞🌍
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